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MAKING the RIGHT choice There are many times during one's lifetime when natural developmental stages or passages are experienced: childhood, adolescence, adulthood, retirement. Because of changes in roles and responsibilities, individuals find themselves either making or assisting in complex and important decisions about where they, a friend, or a family member, should be living. Changes in physical functioning, mental capabilities, life interests, financial situation, and social supports all affect what type of place is appropriate, and most importantly, where an individual is ultimately going to be content and the happiest. Making a good decision regarding where one chooses to live is important and can be difficult. Don't wait until there is a crisis to gather information. The best decisions are usually made without time pressures. Incorporating the help of friends and relatives not only gives one the opportunity to share the work of a search and move but also provides a ready support group to discuss what the move means to each of them. By systematically considering available choices, you can compare the strengths and weaknesses of various options. It is important to try to be as open and honest about what is absolutely needed or wanted and things that are open to compromise and negotiation. K N OW the Personal Likes and Dislikes A small, home-like residence which gives individual attention and care may be ideal for one individual and may be hated by someone else. Sometimes the ability to continue with a hobby or have a pet accompany the person guides all the decisions that need to be made. Take genuine stock of what is most important in the individual's life and make sure this can be maintained, if at all possible. K N OW and Visit the Various Choices Make sure that you look at the options from the point of view of the individual who will be living there. After a scheduled tour and obtaining the general information, make an unscheduled drop-in stop later to see if there are any differences. Pay special attention to the convenience of: location, visiting hours, visiting areas, food, types of care rendered, ancillary services, staffing, daily activities, religious activities, and safety/ security issues. Don't be afraid to make as many trips back as necessary to get all your questions answered. 56