New LifeStyles - San Diego

Winter/Spring 2014

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Q UA L I T Y vs. Cost It can be difficult to find a comfortable balance between the two. Don't forget to ask questions and look into state or federal assistance which may help. Find out what the policy of the residence or facility is if savings or funds of an individual were to be exhausted. Even though these questions may be difficult to ask or make you feel embarrassed, it is something that people who work with facility care are quite comfortable dealing with. Also, they may have some excellent suggestions or alternative programs that you may qualify for. Sometimes the level or type of care an individual needs can fluctuate frequently or change, which may also need to be considered along with any other future needs. PLAN the Move The speed at which the actual change needs to take place can vary. Sometimes a trial stay or keeping two residences for a short period is possible. Obviously, the more crisis-based the decision, the less likely it is that everyone will have the time necessary to adjust. Remember that paid storage space can be obtained for items when it is too overwhelming to make final decisions on possessions. ADJUSTMENT Period When anyone is faced with a major change in his or her life, there comes with it a need for new equilibrium. Assisting with change can be both exhausting and rewarding when it is done responsibly. There is an opportunity to use this time to establish a pattern for cooperative understanding among individuals working toward a mutual goal, and to learn more about oneself. The bittersweet nature of warm memories and simpler tomorrows should not be undersold as not important to the transitional milestone process. After all, home is truly where the heart is and it is important for everyone to feel comfortable with how and where they are living. Try to be patient with your emotions and those of people around you. Give new arrangements time to become comfortable. Making a move can be difficult, even painful, especially later in life. The assistance of an outside party or professional may help with either making the decision itself or with the emotional consequences. Many times these life passages bring up both pleasant and painful memories from the past. Don't be afraid to get the necessary support so you can have a successful move. And whatever path you choose, make the most of it. 57

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